It is that time of the year again where Valentine’s Day comes upon us. And it can be a day filled with love and affection for your significant other. But if you are like a lot of people on Valentine’s Day, you find yourself alone and without a date. For those of you who are single, here are some ideas for what you can do on this day of reflecting on how lonely you are.

The first thing you need to do is stop eating that pint of ice cream, throw away that tissue box, and get yourself together. What you need to do on this day is Treat Yo Self! Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a day of love, so why not love everything about you? You work hard, keep your head up, and take life head on.

Spend the day at a spa getting a massage and what not.
Or, you can go ahead and treat yourself to a movie marathon watching every movie your celebrity crush has starred in.
You can go ahead and take yourself out to dinner, or, with your single friends. (Face it, you’re not the only one in your friends group who is single.)
You can also send yourself many wonderful treats.
Go ahead, order a box of fancy, assorted chocolates for you. Or if you want to really treat yourself, go ahead an order an Edible Arrangement. (Preferably the chocolate covered strawberries.)
For all those single ladies, you can go ahead and do a make-over day pampering yourself. Let’s face it, you deserve a day to make yourself look/feel amazing. And if you’re a guy, get your friends (guys have single friends in their groups too) and hit up the club; and who knows, maybe there are singles ready to mingle there too.
Another thing both guys and girls can do is next weekend when you go out with your friends, brag about how much money you have because you did not go on a date.
Or, you can spend the day at home spending hours of your day on Buzzfeed reading articles and playing quizzes or watching every Vine, Youtube Video, or Netflix series in the world.

But whatever you do, DO NOT look at Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter because your friends in relationships will be posting pictures of their special day.

Although you may be single on Valentine’s Day, you have many ways to treat yo self and give yourself the love you know you deserve. Go ahead and order that Edible Arrangement, snuggle in bed, and watch every movie your celebrity crush is in. Or go ahead with your single friends out to a nice dinner or a night out and possibly meet some single men or women. Whatever you do, just remember it is a day for you to treat yo self.